「迎難而上，不退縮」是許多人的座右銘，但鼓勵的話語， 對生活上工作中遇上一些柔弱又思想極負面的畏縮型人格的人就耍不出效果，只會令他們更加感覺被看低。這種過分自我保護、長期處於負面情緒特質的人，令人感到一種沉重感，想幫助亦覺難於入手 。這種性格，較易形成抑鬱，我們要耐心仔細聆聽他們藏於心底的想法，發揮同行者效應，一起跨過困境向前行
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I work with a focus in exploring self-worth and childhood development of clients. I believe these form an important part of the core base of our behavioural or emotional patterns today, regardless of the surface symptoms. My counselling belief is in working with underlying issues, and less on brief solutions.
