As a husband, and a group leader for a couple group, I find so many useful tips in Dr Cheung’s talk on “Prevention of extra-marital affairs” These indicators help me to reflect on my marriage and in the friends around me, how their communication patterns between husbands and wives fall into the categories proposed by Dr Cheung. Since then, I have referred two couples to Dr Cheung to work on their communication issues. They said Dr Cheung gave them insightful analysis, and constructive suggestions. Through Dr Cheung’s analysis of their pattern of interactions, they can see why each party cannot get the true concerns of the other parties, and the “gap” in their marriage. Dr Cheung make the rebuild or strengthening of their marriage a step-by-step possibility.
Engineer in UK, group leader for a community family service